I often get guys telling me on Twitter or Email that “man, you have the greatest job in world”. I do love my job I admit. I am certainly not doing this to get rich that is for sure! I started in the online adult community back in the mid-1990’s because I am a true believer that the “woman next door” is often the most beautiful woman in the world. I always believed this, even as teenager. Contrary to the images put forth in the common magazines of the day like Penthouse, Playboy, Glamour, Vogue and Cosmopolitan I believe most men enjoy the “real woman”. Not that the models in those magazines are not real or pretty, they are both of those. However, they are unattainable for the mortal man … LOL!

Not only do I get to work with such great women, but often I get to meet them. And there have even been a few over the years that I’ve had the chance to play with, not often but a couple times.

Most of the women I work with are great women, but Dreamnet also mirrors real life in the sense that every so often you run across someone you are working with that is just a complete ass or stuck on themselves. These types of women never end up working out on Dreamnet. In the Amateur Adult Arena I think once a viewer figures out a woman is stuck on herself she is doomed. Guys can smell a stuck up woman a million miles away LOL!

If you are like me you are looking for women that are real and obtainable. You know, the kind of woman that if you ran into her at the bar or the mall you’d be like “I have a chance with her”. A woman that is down to earth, nice and obtainable. Yes I know all of us men have our physical preferences. But I can honestly say that for me, those physical preferences are often forgotten about if I really like someone on a personality level.

Whenever a new woman comes to Dreamnet one of the first questions I get asked “how much does the average Dreamgirl make” and next is exactly what I tell them. “It’s almost impossible to come up with an average. We have women that make very little per week and women that make a lot per week. And that’s because being an online adult amateur is 80% personality and 20% looks.” What I mean when I tell women this is that the Internet has so much free porn there is no reason a guy has to spent one penny on Internet Porn. If all a guy wants to do is jack off there are a million sites online that let you do that for free. So what makes an amateur adult woman attractive to someone, one thing, their personality. As far as I can tell this is the only reason a guy will buy a amateur site. A woman’s personality (80%) combined with her content (20%) is what makes a man attracted to her site. I know this because I was one of those men long before becoming the Dreamnet Webmaster. Since being a webmaster on Dreamnet I have witnessed women of every shape, size and color make money … and I have seen women of every shape, size and color not make money. The one differentiating factor is personality!

Ok Ok … I’m rambling now. But that is what I want these Webmaster posts to be about. My life and thoughts here on Dreamnet! And if you have specific questions you’d like to see answered in this column email them to dreamnetrob@gmail.com or reply to this post.

One thing I have always enjoyed about being a webmaster is the “special pictures” I get from Dreamgirls every once in a while. I cherish these photos because they make me feel a little special and like somebody out there gives a damn LOL! They just add a little sunshine in my life. Her are couple of examples.

A cute photo Karma (former Dreamgril) took for me.

Here is another example Tiffiny (former Dreamgirl) took for me on my birthday!

But with all it’s glory this job is also very hard and can be quite frustrating at times. I work A LOT of hours. I often put in 60 – 70 hours a week. Luckily I’m one of those people that function quite well on 5 – 6 hours sleep. Another thing that drives me nuts and caused me to tweet some negative stuff on Wednesday is apathy. Women are always saying to me, “I love doing this Rob but I need to make more money if I’m going to keep doing it”. But they don’t want to work at it? They do the content portion (20%) but they do not do the personality portion (80%). What do I mean by work at it … I mean sharing themselves and their personality. Take this blog as one example, I spent 5 days straight from a Thursday through a Tuesday working on setting up this new Dreamnet homepage and blog. I worked straight through the weekend doing 12 – 14 hour days. But how many of the Dreamnet women actually use this blog regularly? Maybe 8 or so. Most have not even made a single post. I have encouraged all the women to post in here with their updates and also non-porn related things. Anything that makes them happy. Hell I don’t care, write about the new furniture you just purchased. Why? Because it shares insight in your personality and what makes a man want to spend money on a Dreamgirl, you got it, personality. But just as with the Dreamnet Forum, only a small percentage of Dreamgirls use this blog. An even smaller percentage of Dreamnet viewers comment on posts made here. So this is one of those times that I probably busted my ass for nothing. I’m going to leave if for nothing else but for me to vent and for the google search engines. After all, the few that do use will be rewarded over time.

That’s all for now, I’ve already went on to long. And if you have specific questions you’d like to see answered in this column email them to dreamnetrob@gmail.com or reply to this post.

As the song “The Bug” by Mary Chapin Carpenter goes “Sometimes you’re the windshield and sometimes you’re the bug”. I guess right now I’m feeling more like the bug LOL!

One last note: Any Dreamgirl, hubby or Dreamnet viewer/fan out there that would like to write for this blog on any topic please let me know at dreamentrob@gmail.com and we can set it up.